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Local holiday shopping for everyone on your list

I’ve heard from a few readers and friends that they want to participate in the Conscientious Christmas Challenge, but they don’t really know of many independently-owned businesses in Connecticut. So, I’ve put together a list of places to shop, categorized by who might be on your list. Happy Holidays!

For the bookworm: Atticus Bookstore & Cafe (New Haven), The Book Barn (Niantic), The Book Rack (Vernon), R.J. Julia (Madison). If you can’t find books you’re looking for at any of these stores, skip Amazon and buy from Better World Books. They ship worldwide for free and, with every purchase, they donate a book to a child literacy program. Win-win!

For the chocolate connoisseur: Divine Treasures (Manchester), Knipschildt Chocolatier (Norwalk).

For the cupcake enthusiast: Bolo Bakery (Plainville), Sugarbelle (Glastonbury and West Hartford), Truffles Bakery and Kitchen (Farmington).

For the kiddies/kids at heart: Amato’s Toy and Hobby (Middletown and New Britain), Kiddly Winks (Canton), Once Upon a Child (Bristol, Danbury, Hamden, Manchester… they’re everywhere!), Toy Chest (West Hartford),

For the one that needs pampering/beauty queen: Apricot Blossom Therapeutic Massage (West Hartford), By the Sea (Branford, CT), Elle Nails & Spa (Middletown), envee salon & spa (Southington), Jennie Fresa makeup and skincare boutiquerie.

For the tea lover: The Green Teahouse (specializing in Chinese Tea Ceremonies, West Hartford) Simpson & Vale (Brookfield), Tisane (Hartford).

Got other ideas? Leave a comment! And don’t forget to submit your order to the Poor & Pretty Etsy shop by Friday, December 16th, to have it delivered in time for the holidays!

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Like a Fresh New Penny giveaway winner

I used Random.org to determine the winner of the Like a Fresh New Penny All-Natural Starter Kit, and the winner is…Erin Smith! Congratulations, Erin! I’ll be e-mailing you shortly. :)

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Giveaway: Like a Fresh New Penny all-natural laundry starter kit

One of my goals with the Conscientious Christmas Challenge is to buy gifts from independently-owned businesses in Connecticut. In order to do this, I needed to do some research and actually find small businesses. I found Like a Fresh New Penny, which sells handmade, all-natural laundry supplies, via Ann Nyberg, and I’m giving away a starter kit to one lucky reader!

Rebecca Pickering, a Connecticut native living in Newington, started making her own laundry detergent for a few reasons: her husband has sensitive skin, she wanted an eco-friendly detergent, and she is trying to live more frugally. Her detergent {“laundry soap”} only contains three ingredients: washing soda, borax {a naturally-occurring mineral}, and ivory soap {99% pure with no dyes or chemicals}. Rebecca sometimes gets her soap from Connecticut soapmakers. The laundry soap contains no harsh chemicals, so it’s perfect for babies or people with skin allergies. You only need about a tablespoon for each load, half for high-efficiency machines, and each bag comes with a scoop so you know just how much to use.

Rebecca’s felted dryer balls were born out of her frustration with dryer sheets. “I would find dryer sheets all over the house, which drove me nuts,” says Rebecca. “So, I thought, there has to be a better way to do this.” The dryer balls are made entirely from felted wool and they last for a very, very long time. “I know people that have used the same dryer balls for years,” Rebecca said. “Initially, they’re more expensive than dryer sheets, but because they last so long, they’re less expensive in the long-term.” You pop 2-4 dryer balls in for small loads, and 5-7 for large loads. They work by separating the clothes, which allows them to dry faster, resulting in less time needed in the dryer. Oh, and the noise of the balls bouncing around in the machine is normal! Rebecca’s dryer balls are unscented, but you can add a few drops of essential oils onto them to fragrance your dryer loads.

So what’s in the starter kit and how do you win it? I’m giving away Like a Fresh New Penny’s Holiday All-Natural Starter Kit, which contains a 10 oz bag of laundry soap {good for 30 loads in a regular machine, 50 for high-efficiency machines} with a scoop and 3 felted dryer balls, all nestled in a sweet holiday candy cane basket and wrapped in a Christmas tree print bag. This is a great gift for anyone because everyone washes their clothes {hopefully}! Keep it for yourself, give it to a friend who has sensitive skin or a new baby, or bring it to a holiday party grab bag, which is what I’ll be doing! Here’s how to enter: 1) “Like” Like a Fresh New Penny on Facebook,  2) “Like” Poor & Pretty on Facebook, and 3) Leave a comment on this post by the end of Sunday, December 11th. Winner will be chosen and announced on Monday, December 12th. Good luck!

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Cyber Monday: Online Deals at Local & Independent Shops

It’s Cyber Monday and there are crazy good discounts all over the Interwebs, including my Etsy shop. I’m offering 30% off at the Poor & Pretty Etsy shop with the coupon code CYMON30!

Here are a few other Connecticut-owned Etsy shops that are having some great sales today:

Aidan’s Attic: Have you got a dog lover or photographer on your nice list? Aidan’s Attic makes dog colors and camera straps in Brooklyn, CT, and is offering free shipping until November 30th. No discount coupon needed – prices have been modified to reflect the free shipping.

Birds and Beads: Ali Smith {you may remember her from the Brazen Betties Indie Craft Fair} makes beautiful jewelry using locally sourced and handmade beads. She’s offering free shipping with the code SHOPSMALL.

Candid Grace: Handmade custom jewelry and accessories from Brookfield, CT, is offering 20% off your entire order with coupon code CYBERMONDAY20. I love her hand-stamped Harry Potter keychain.

Fresh Stitches: Made in New Haven, these crocheted stuffed animals (amigurumi) would be great for wee ones. Actually, I know a few grownups who collect these, too! The shop also sells crochet patterns so that you can make your own. Fresh Stitches is offering free shipping and discounts for Cyber Monday. No coupon code needed.

Selah Essentials: Bath and body products handmade in Mansfield, including all-natural soaps, salt and sugar scrubs, and lip balms. Get 10% off all items by using promo code BLACKFRIDAY11. Plus, with every item purchased, your name will be entered to win a free 4oz jar of body scrub. Winner will be announced on the Selah Essentials Facebook page.

Spare Bedroom Studio: These handmade origami mobiles would be a wonderfully unique gift for someone on your list who’s expecting a new baby soon. They’d also be perfect for an office! Everything in the shop is 20% off through the end of today. No coupon code needed, as the discount is already reflected in the prices.

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The Conscientious Christmas Challenge

In this economy, it’s tough to be moral and broke. I want to support small businesses and independent artists, and buy Organic and Fair Trade, but very often it’s less costly and time consuming to shop at a big chain store or dollar stores and buy store-brand goods. The problem is that many big companies {like Wal-Mart and Family Dollar, for example} are known to exploit their workers in order to keep the big bucks in shareholder’s pockets. So, while you’re getting a great deal, the workers are not, and neither is our country.

So, what to do? My friend Ben {who you may remember from Michigan} has the answer. Ben just started an as-yet-nameless but very smart blog, and is challenging his readers, friends, and family to a Conscientious Christmas Challenge {or Winter Solstice or Hanukkah or Kwanzaa, etc.}. Says Ben:

…We could spend {our holiday dollars} buying plastic trees at Wal-Mart and ordering CD’s and books off Amazon, but these are corporations that have no interest in creating jobs, and no responsibilities to their communities.  There is no denying that what is better for your local community’s economy is better for you.
This year, I am challenging myself to do all of my holiday shopping, decorate my house, wrap all of my friends and family’s gifts and simply celebrate this holiday as ethically as possible.
By purchasing something from an independent bookstore or record shop rather than ordering off Amazon, you are choosing to keep that money circulating in your city.  By purchasing a live tree or a fresh cut tree from a local farmer’s market (Hint: If you purchase the tree, chances are they’ll plant a new one.  Simple supply and demand!) rather than purchasing a plastic non-biodegrading one from Wal-Mart… you are not only helping your local economy but helping the environment. These are just a couple of examples!

So how can you participate in the Conscientious Christmas Challenge? Join the event on Facebook. If you don’t have a Facebook account, or if you’d prefer not to join on Facebook, you can still take part. Here are the rules {well, more like guidelines}:

1. Support local businesses first. There are alternatives to nearly anything that you could purchase from a Target, Wal-Mart, or other larger business.

2. Support independent businesses and entrepreneurs first. This goes along with the first rule. If you go to websites like etsy.com or do a bit of searching, you can find tons of businesses starting up in your area that need support! If you can’t find options that are local, you can foster creative thinking, a more diverse economy, and know exactly where your money is going.

3. Know what businesses stand for. When it isn’t probable for you to shop local or independent, know what it is that you’re supporting with your money. Target is known for supporting anti-gay politicians, Wal-Mart treats its employees atrociously, etc.  Sometimes it’s hard to really decide what business decisions trump others. Take American Apparel for example: While their CEO is clearly a bad egg, the company uses all-American labor, and all-American products. So do you support the company or not? You have to make that decision in consideration of your own priorities.

4. Cook ethically. Head to the local farmer’s market, check out a co-operative and shop free range, organic and GMO free. Choose the ethical option when cooking your holiday meals. Avoid GMO food {especially Monsanto} and whenever possible, purchase organic food! It’s significantly healthier for you.

5. Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Challenge yourself not to buy any new wrapping paper. Instead, wrap your gifts in newspaper like my family does, or hit up thrift stores and antique stores in search for unique ways to wrap up your gifts. Not only will you be reusing, thrift stores and antique stores sell what is given to them, therefore purchasing wrapping paper or other materials won’t affect the supply and demand of the product. The less paper/plastic bought new, the less paper/plastic produced the next year, and the less paper/plastic that ends up in landfills.

6. Get creative! While writing someone a short story or creating a song for them may sound a bit sappy to some, you can always get more creative with gift giving. Visiting your parents in a far-off state? Put together a local product basket, filled with foods and products created in your area. Looking to be less material? Donate to a cause near and dear to their hearts.

7. Do what you can. Honestly, celebrating the holidays in this way won’t always be the most affordable option. If you can only afford to use recycled wrapping paper, that’s fine. If you truly have to buy something from a megastore for your relative or friend, buy it. Just do the best that you can to participate the way you can. If this was an easy thing to do, it wouldn’t be a challenge!

8. Last but not least: No snobbery! Shopping local, organic, etc. has started to get a bad reputation. When you tell people about the challenge or people ask how you’re doing on your Christmas Challenge don’t act holier-than-thou. Be positive, excited, and inspiring. The more who participate {at any level}, the better!

Ben & I love to hug and shop locally.

So, join Ben & I! There are a number of ways you can get involved in passing along the challenge to others. Link people to these rules and the other blog posts related to the challenge to get people thinking about what they can do. Join the Facebook event here, and invite all of your friends and family! For my part, I’ll be posting non-stop until the holidays are over with concrete ways to apply these rules to your {and my} holiday shopping, including links to independent shops/artists, CT indie events/fairs {like the Brazen Betties Indie Craft Fair this Friday}, and even gift & wrapping ideas.

I’m looking forward to shopping indie for the holidays with you!
xoxo,
Sami

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